duce?

So this girly very cute and cool girl i had a thing for well we start to hit off but it turns out shes kinda with someone but its long overdue break up and i said i wouldn't do anything til they were officially over even if he didn't live close. well she finally does and i give her a couple days and ask her on a date thats it and she says shes too depressed and its too fast to give her like a week so im just being a friend comforting her because although she didn't like the guy much it still hurt well she gets with someone else and when i find out im pissed we stop talking for a bit and then start back up well feelings come back and she says she loves me more than her boyfriend so im confused as heck and then she never breaks up with him when things were supposed to happen....ummm bippish much?